Comments on: What the Strippers Taught Me http://latebloomerbride.com/2010/02/what-the-strippers-taught-me/ Getting married later in life. Fri, 30 Jul 2010 05:29:41 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Suzanne http://latebloomerbride.com/2010/02/what-the-strippers-taught-me/comment-page-1/#comment-3182 Suzanne Tue, 09 Feb 2010 15:23:01 +0000 http://latebloomerbride.com/?p=1640#comment-3182 Thank you! :-) Thank you! :-)

]]> By: Theresa http://latebloomerbride.com/2010/02/what-the-strippers-taught-me/comment-page-1/#comment-3181 Theresa Tue, 09 Feb 2010 14:37:18 +0000 http://latebloomerbride.com/?p=1640#comment-3181 Thanks for posting. I love reading your posts... Thanks for posting. I love reading your posts…

]]> By: Linda http://latebloomerbride.com/2010/02/what-the-strippers-taught-me/comment-page-1/#comment-3180 Linda Tue, 09 Feb 2010 02:41:48 +0000 http://latebloomerbride.com/?p=1640#comment-3180 I loved this blog Suzanne.......and you're so right! We learn from everyone! Thank you for your honesty and graciousness! Keep on blogging and we'll keep on listening! I loved this blog Suzanne…….and you’re so right! We learn from everyone! Thank you for your honesty and graciousness! Keep on blogging and we’ll keep on listening!

]]> By: Suzanne http://latebloomerbride.com/2010/02/what-the-strippers-taught-me/comment-page-1/#comment-3179 Suzanne Tue, 09 Feb 2010 01:21:05 +0000 http://latebloomerbride.com/?p=1640#comment-3179 Thank you for such a thorough and generous comment. I understand what you wrote, as I did get the sense most of the men at the club were very lonely. I mean it when I said my trips to the clubs were enlightening. The women I saw there seemed genuinely interested in entertaining and connecting. My best to you, Dr. Dancer! Thank you for such a thorough and generous comment. I understand what you wrote, as I did get the sense most of the men at the club were very lonely. I mean it when I said my trips to the clubs were enlightening. The women I saw there seemed genuinely interested in entertaining and connecting. My best to you, Dr. Dancer!

]]> By: Dr Dancer http://latebloomerbride.com/2010/02/what-the-strippers-taught-me/comment-page-1/#comment-3178 Dr Dancer Tue, 09 Feb 2010 00:55:50 +0000 http://latebloomerbride.com/?p=1640#comment-3178 Interesting and well rounded approach to this topic. Particularly in response to the comparison between marriage and stripping. I may add that this sort of dedication to ones marriage is well beyond what even a super stripper can achieve... but then, you fancy the man you are trying to care for. This certainly makes a difference! Thank you for this though, I am an advocate for the girls to have more supportive voices out there in the community. They are not out there trying to advertise of recruit, they are not perpetrating the industry, but for working in it. It’s the community….telling the world who they must be, to be the job, telling them how they should feel because they do it…. Not looking inward, wondering if it really is sick and perverse men who are coming in to the world. Stripping doesn’t really cater to sick and perverse….it caters to the lonely, the unmanly, the de-masculinized, the unhappy, the egotistical (and therefore lonely) the shy, the old, the ugly (and therefore all lonely….) the wise, the stupid, the emotionally stagnant, the emotionally overwhelming (and therefore all lonely….you get the pattern). Why a dancer comes to dance sometimes is much less important than how and what she comes to do once she is one. Love and Grace. Dr Dancer. Interesting and well rounded approach to this topic. Particularly in response to the comparison between marriage and stripping. I may add that this sort of dedication to ones marriage is well beyond what even a super stripper can achieve… but then, you fancy the man you are trying to care for. This certainly makes a difference!

Thank you for this though, I am an advocate for the girls to have more supportive voices out there in the community. They are not out there trying to advertise of recruit, they are not perpetrating the industry, but for working in it. It’s the community….telling the world who they must be, to be the job, telling them how they should feel because they do it…. Not looking inward, wondering if it really is sick and perverse men who are coming in to the world.
Stripping doesn’t really cater to sick and perverse….it caters to the lonely, the unmanly, the de-masculinized, the unhappy, the egotistical (and therefore lonely) the shy, the old, the ugly (and therefore all lonely….) the wise, the stupid, the emotionally stagnant, the emotionally overwhelming (and therefore all lonely….you get the pattern). Why a dancer comes to dance sometimes is much less important than how and what she comes to do once she is one.
Love and Grace.
Dr Dancer.

]]> By: Suzanne http://latebloomerbride.com/2010/02/what-the-strippers-taught-me/comment-page-1/#comment-3175 Suzanne Mon, 08 Feb 2010 16:58:21 +0000 http://latebloomerbride.com/?p=1640#comment-3175 Aw, thanks! Everyone has something to teach. And, boy do I need to listen. (Popping over to your blog now for a break from the Snowmageddon here.) :-) Aw, thanks! Everyone has something to teach. And, boy do I need to listen. (Popping over to your blog now for a break from the Snowmageddon here.) :-)

]]> By: nandoism http://latebloomerbride.com/2010/02/what-the-strippers-taught-me/comment-page-1/#comment-3174 nandoism Mon, 08 Feb 2010 16:52:37 +0000 http://latebloomerbride.com/?p=1640#comment-3174 What an excellent post; both educational--cause child I needs me a stripper education and also very sincere. I really dig this blog and I dig you! Rock on Late Bloomer Bride! What an excellent post; both educational–cause child I needs me a stripper education and also very sincere. I really dig this blog and I dig you! Rock on Late Bloomer Bride!

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